Where’s the beef? Thursday, Nov 26 2009 

I survived this Thanksgiving without eating meat. I was slightly concerned that I might buckle. When everyone starting fixing their plates I really didn’t have a desire for the turkey OR the pot roast–I was good. I did have a meat substitute and it was delish along with the rest of the fixin’s. 

Dinner is here at my aunt’s house.  When we arrived she was in the kitchen prepping a few last minute things.  She was talkin’ and then said “Your hair is BIG! I can see it outta the corner of my eye!” *gush* That’s a compliment to me :-)

Hope you all are having a wonderful Thanksgiving.

The winner is… Thursday, Nov 26 2009 

……Pserendipity!!!!  Email me your addy Chica…why do I feel like I’ve betrayed TM??? lol

Thank you alll for delurking.  I’ll be doing another give-away very soon.

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!!

ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE YA’LL!!!

Attitude of Gratitude Wednesday, Nov 25 2009 

This weekend I attended a women’s group with my cousin. I walked away with a fresh perspective on gratitude so I wanted to share.

When you think about things that you’re grateful for there are usually standard things right at the top. For most of us it’s family, friends and shelter. She challenged us to think outside of those things are other things we’re really grateful for. Have you ever thought about what life would be like if we didn’t have the means to properly dispose of our garbage?? How would life be surrounded by garbage and the smell?

I mentioned in another post that I was going through something at work and I was really pissed off about it. Internally I did my fair share of grumbling and “this is not right and this is not fair”. I complained. I couldn’t understand why God was allowing me to be placed in this situation.

Towards the end of the meeting she read a mission story called “Being Thankful when Betrayed”. It was about two young chinese women who were imprionsed and set to be execueted. They were imprionsed for being christians, and refused to renounced their faith. They were led to a court yard to face their execution and told to kneel. Moments later their pastor appeared with a gun in hand. The prision officials made a deal with the pastor. He would be spared if he agreed to perform the execution himself. When they realized what was going on they wanted to say a few words. “We want to thank you for all you have done for us. You ministered to us and baptized us. If it were not for you we may not have come to know Christ as our Saviour. Everyone goes through ups and downs in their faith, and we forgive you. We hope that you find your way back. May God reward you for all the good you have done. We die with gratitude”. The pastor then shot them. Then he was shot by the guards.

I was in awe. How could these young women see anything but red at their very own pastor for this kind of betrayal? My heart swelled. We discussed the story and came to the conclusion that this was Christ manifested. I want to strive to be like that. “In all things give thanks for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus” 1 Thessalonians 5:18. This scripture doesn’t say to give thanks for all things, but through everything that we are allowed to go through we should have a thankful heart. If you believe that God has it under control. If you know that he can see the beginning from the end and he’ll make it alright this is possible.

During this time of year we are normally more cognizant of things to be thankful for. Challenge yourself to start thinking about the non-traditional things to be grateful for and see if you don’t start to see things differently.

~A heart of gratitude

SHE DID IT! Tuesday, Nov 24 2009 

I’m UBER proud of our own MzInspiredmind!!! She graduated on Saturday.  Even if you’ve never done it you know that working, going to school and taking care of a family is no easy feat…but its doable..know how I know? Cuz she did! WOOOHOOOOO

Congrats Girlfriend…you inspire me.

Weekend Turn-out Tuesday, Nov 24 2009 

This weekend was chock full and a ball to say the least.

I headed to the DMV area Friday afternoon to hang out with family and friends.  Friday night we went to my cousin’s SIL’s home.  She was hosting a sister’s circle.  It was great to sit in.  The Thanksgiving theme was gratitude.  We took a moment and meditated on 1 Thessalonians 5:18  “In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.” KJV

We shared some of the things we were thankful for.  It’s second nature to say we’re thankful for family or for our jobs and homes or our children.  What about some of the other things…maybe some of the things that we don’t pay much attention to…those things that are on auto pilot.  I’m going to touch on this again on Wednesday for a give-away.

Saturday I hooked up with CreoleinDC for her Nintendo Wii Fit Plus party.  Do we have a good time? DID WE? WHAAAAT???? It was a riot..check it out (more…)

Delurk Giveaway! Monday, Nov 23 2009 

It’s Kellyinaday’s Delurking Day! delurk

So please take a sec to introduce yourself.

What’s your name? How long have have you been lurking? How’d you find this place? What do you like reading about here? Whatever else you’d like to add is cool.

This giveaway will be one of 4 of my favorite things giveaways. My regulars are welcome to comment. Look at it as a way to introduce yourself to the lurkers.

I’m going to leave this open until Wednesday…don’t be shy.

My angel Thursday, Nov 19 2009 

Baby Bird – 3rd grade

Good for the soul Thursday, Nov 19 2009 

I have a confession.  I have a crush on a guy in my social science class.  He’s super smart, fresh and so so clean….and he’s married.  I stay far away from him.  His personality is magnetic.   I was thinking this morning and I can’t ever recall having this kinda crush on a married man.  A week after I told Bible boy that we weren’t compatible (I don’t think I gave him a name before..he’s no longer relevant, but for the sake of this post let’s go with that)  he called me to have me RE-explain why I’m not interested.  He didn’t think I gave it a fair try.  It seems in an effort to convey how serious he is/was about me he told me that he’s liked me ever since I was married.

I’m aware enough to know that I have a crush on this guy and because I know I do I need to stay away.   To put it in a different perspective, if I had a lapse in judgment, I don’t think he would be moved because I see dude as a really good guy…as such he wouldn’t allow it either…at least I’d like to think.  

Which brings me to exactly how do people say “It just happened”?  Have you ever flirted with this kind of temptation? Tell the truth and shame the devil! If so, how did you end up on that slippery slope.  Was it in your younger…dumber years.  I’m really interested..you can comment anonymously.

As for me…I say hey from a distance and keep it moving.  He’s that bright eyed…nice smile…Morris.Chest.nut chocolait!

Go away Wednesday, Nov 18 2009 

I’ve been suffering with a headache for days.   It feels like a sinus headache…it hurts all over.  Trying to complete my research paper has been especially challenging because of this pain.

I believe in drugs, but the pain comes and goes when it feels like it.  I have too much going on to be disabled this way.

I’m going to class to turn in my paper and then I’m going home.

Say a prayer for me…thanks.

Black satin… Tuesday, Nov 17 2009 

…is the dress that I chose.  Although, I REALLY liked the origami dresses, when I got them in my size they boxed me in too much…I didn’t have a waist.   I could get it tailored, but I don’t feel like it. 

I felt beautiful in the black satin dress.  Everything was just right.  Yes I’m posing in the filing room…lol.  I haven’t replaced my digital camera yet, and my phone doesn’t give good light.   

I tasted mushroom stuffed with mandarin oranges.  I people watched…batted my lashes a few times.  We had a champagne toast and I headed home.  It was a lovely night.  (sidenote: Nene from RHOA was there.  She’s not as big as I thought. )

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