Part of the reason why I share the details of what I go through in my daily life is because I want you guys to challenge me…to hold me accountable to those things that I say I’m going to do, or not going to do…be it in my personal relationships or my school/career aspirations. So many of you inspire me for various reasons.
The other reason I share so much is because I know one day it is going to be a joy to look back, once I’ve attained some of the things I aspire to. Often times people don’t realize what others that have had to overcome to get where they are…they just see the blessing, but not the struggle.
Stumbling blocks are a given especially when you are reaching towards the prize at the top. I shared my experience the other week with needing to take this addt’l class. It puts me at an 18 credit course load this semester. As I mentioned, the fact that the Campus Director offered financial assistance made the pill a bit easier to swallow.
Last week Thursday I was leaving school when the same woman who told me that I HAD to take this course stopped me. Long story short in her very own style of tacky she told me that I needed to clear with financial aid so that I could take the course. I countered with “No…Dr. Campus Director needs to take care of that”. Ms. Waste of Oxygen said “No…that offered was rejected by the Dean“. Was it her place to reveal that to me…she didn’t make the offer in the 1st place? At that point I could have allowed my pressure to rise. I shrugged and said “Ok, well that I guess that means I can’t take the course…that’s a no brainer” and I walked away. She stood looking at me like I had 3 heads.
What I have not shared is that I have an outstanding balance right now of $1,062. My financial aid award should have covered all of my classes. Something went awry, so this is what I’m left with. My education is important so this will be dealt with, but it is another blow.
Fast forward to last night. I ran into Dr. Campus Director…I didn’t mention my discussion with Ms. Waste of Oxygen. I asked about her original offer and it still stands, she even mentioned giving me books for next semester. All should be in place by Wednesday. It’s a good thing I recognize a waste of oxygen when I see one. Why bother conversing with her when she has no final yes or no to offer. Yup…stumbling blocks.
I will be greasing her palm showing my appreciation for her assistance. I heard she loves breads.
What is at the top of your mountain?